How to Make a Man Feel Needed

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A lot of pride seems to be hurt and lots of deflection when David tells us to man up. Don't overdo the nagging. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems.

She did it because she wanted to. I plan on picking a few things, having them in mind all day, and surprising him when he gets home.

Help Him To Feel Good About Himself

Every man feels and receives love in different ways, so not all of these ideas are going to work for you, but at least a few of them will! Pick three this week to use to show your man how much you love him! Food is the way to a man's heart. Make a list of his favorite snacks, treats, and meals - and make one of them for your husband, just because. Your man is going to feel loved when you take care of yourself. Make time to eat right, exercise, and look your best, so that you can feel your best. Take care of yourself emotionally, too. Love where you are at in life and be optimistic and grateful. Having a happy and healthy wife goes a long ways in helping your man feel loved. Be more savvy about money, whether you are both the breadwinners, or just one of you. And always express appreciation often to your husband for all he does to help provide for your family. Don't talk bad about him. Be loyal to your man in every way. And run your fingers through his hair. He adores affection just as much as you do. Don't forget to give him massive hugs, too. Pick up one of his hobbies and really get into it. I'll never forget the little elderly lady I met when we lived in San Diego. I fix cars and golf, and it has made for the best marriage ever. Let him have some man time. Maybe he just needs a little time to work on the car, or play his favorite video game, or lift weights at the gym with his buddies. Catch him doing good. Nagging doesn't work, so make sure you catch him doing good. Initiate sex more - and be more playful and romantic. Write him a letter. Or leave him , or send him a text. Your little reminders of love and appreciation go a long way in encouraging him and helping him feel loved. He needs to know you care and that you are thinking about him. Plan a day that he would love - for just the two of you. Maybe you start by kidnapping him and taking him to breakfast, or by letting him sleep in, giving him a massage and breakfast in bed. Make the whole day special and he will feel loved and appreciated. Or, if you are feeling extra ambitious, plan a for the two of you. No matter your family dynamic, you and your husband both have roles in and out of the home. So honor yours, whether that means doing your half of the chores and maybe his, just because or taking the dog to the vet, or picking up that thing he needed for work - honor your role. Tell him often how handsome he is. He needs to know you are still super attracted to him. Compliment him often in front of others. His friends and family need to know what a good husband, provider and man he is. Let them know your husband is your hero, but don't be too cheesy about it. Be quick to say you are sorry. When you can recognize that you have hurt his feelings, or said something rude, your ability to quickly ask for his forgiveness will help him feel loved and respected. Be humble and just say those 16. Or, if he isn't a gift kind of guy, find a way to serve him. Maybe you could clean his car and fill it with gas, or iron his shirts. Or maybe even mow the lawn. Whether you buy a gift or serve him in a non-monetary way, he will feel loved and grateful that you were thinking of him. Ask for his advice, and then follow it. Guys like to fix things, and they often have wise and realistic insight into ways of overcoming challenges and problems. It would be wise to show your husband how much you love him by taking his advice, and then thanking him for it later. He'll really appreciate it, and be more likely to give advice only when you ask, because he'll know you care about what he thinks and will take his advice to heart. Good day everybody my name is Mrs Caroline Gilli am here to share with you my life experience how a great man called Dr Alexzander saved me and my marriage. I want to tell all the women out there who have a similar situation like that the world is not over YET they should dry up their tears and contact this great man and their problem will be gone or are you also having other problems you can also contact Dr Alexzander, here is how you can contact him. Thank Dr Alexzander for everything you did in my marriage. I don't like this at all. Most of it is based on 1950's style marriage. I have a wonderful collaborative marriage, without such gender stereotyped roles. Been married nearly 30 years. A few friends with this type of thinking are divorced. Taking up his hobbies would lead to resentment. Choose your husband wisely so you like the same things, then you can enjoy life together. Patricia, We appreciate your comment and your concern and recognize how this article could be viewed that way. This article wasn't meant to be dated, but we believe these things work. However, we can see your point and recognize there are hundreds of other tips that work to help couples nurture their marriages, as well! I was reading it trying to digest it thinking OMG really! I was feeling guilty about my opinion until unread your post. I believe Relationships have transitioned out of this fairy tale BS. Not sure how long I could keep up this charade. Although since my relationship isn't in such a good place, it's easy to think maybe this is what I should have been doing all along. Unfortunately I can't imagine doing all this and then becoming more resentful then ever. Seems love should come together more naturally without a set of rules for the women. Would love to want to do all this out of true feelings rather than to accomodate your mate. I'm a man and I ate up everyone of the above suggestions! I want to be recognized for what I do, it will encourage me to do more! And I would love if my wife participated in my hobby with me, so I'm sorry you're in correct. I'm not saying that this article speaks to everyone but to dismiss it out of hand is wrong too! Love in its truest form gives openly and without expecting anything in return. We are incapable of doing this 100% of the time. However we do need to do our part. Also consider why we do it. If we do it for ourselves then it is not love. This is why it doesn't work for some couples. But I will also point out that back in the 1950's divorce rates were much lower than today. So we shouldn't completely disregard the things that worked for our parents and grandparents. So true, I don't like it either, basically do we have to delete ourselves to make them happy? I'm not saying no compromises but don't forget who you are just to please someone CKT, Thanks for your comment! We definitely don't want this to come across as a set of rules, as it is simply a few suggestions that may or may not work for you. Love should come together naturally, but it is going to take choice, loyalty, and commitment to stick it out even when feelings ebb and flow. We hope something on our website is helpful as you learn and grow in your relationship! Marie, You definitely don't have to delete yourself. There is just something about focusing on your spouse and hopefully he is doing the same for you that brings a lot of happiness into marriage. As you focus on meeting his needs and helping him feel loved and appreciated, and he does the same for you, nurturing can happen and your marriage can thrive. All 6 said they would welcome their wives doing these. I agree, so make that 7 of us who like these. Not familiar with marriages in the 50's, but happy is happy regardless of the decade. Suggest you may want to query your husband..... I've been married for 30 years. I agree with you 100% Patricia. I use to follow most of those suggestions. All it did was feed unhealthy, narcissistic behavior. It encouraged control, manipulation, and false believes about gender roles in a marriage. When wives feel valued, they will naturally desire to do those things. Otherwise, we become objects they own and use for their selfish pleasures and toss away until the next fix. Not at all 1950's. That is the way men have been wired for thousands of years. I am all for women's rights, but biology and brain function cannot be changed by our feminist ideas. If your marriage is succesful, you probably behave somewhat like that wuthout realising it, or your husband has a girl on the side to fill gis unmet NEEDS. I was not disappointed.... This is about marriage not the public venue nor the workplace.. This note was for women to consider... I would think only those who are interested would read it... It was written by a couple for couples. There are all kind of suggestions to husbands and men about relations with women. I do all of this for my boyfriend now, he does them for me also... Ashlea, We're sorry that things have been so difficult for you. It is important that both spouses do their part to take care of each other. However, we would encourage you to not give up on your marriage just yet. Email us and we'll see if we can help you in any way! It is a long term decision and one that no longer seeking repair would be a defining, irreparable approach. Please keep the commitment you made in the forefront of your combined singular self, together. I agree with Stephanie! I am finally in a relationship where it cuts both ways! He makes me feel as adored and respected as I do him. I leave him a Post It with words of encouragement, love and thanks each morning on a spot I know he would see it, these spots differ which according to him makes him look forward to the next mornings little Post It! He then walks with this note in his pocket until he has figured out the mraning behind the insightful note where after he dates and files it! He apparently wants to bind them into a little book for publishing to help others see the importance in simple communication.. Gotta love him don't you think? Anja I completely agree with the suggestion to save money. The majority of my friends make more than their partners as well... I appreciate your other suggestions and feel like I do the majority of them. I will definitely try to do them all : Another one to add to that is offering to help. When I notice my boyfriend seems to have a lot on his plate then the night before I ask him what I can do to help make his day easier. And whatever he asks, I do!! It is so amazing seeing his look of relief when I key him know it's taken care of. He's less stressed and so appreciative... Little things make a big difference!! These suggestions are great if the marriage relationship is a healthy relationship based on valid principals. I'm not sure if it's a cultural thing or what, but it appears to be an epidemic particularly in the type of church I use to attend for the last 30 years of a false belief systems. True love seeks the best interest of the other. So in a healthy relationship, it's not one sided. Both spouses should feel loved by the thoughtful suggestions listed. Annie, We appreciate your comment and your concern. This article wasn't meant to be dated, but we believe these things work. However, we can see your point and appreciate your concern. Love and respect go both ways and in this case, these were 17 ways we thought women could show love. There are plenty of other ways to express love in marriage that aren't on this list!! And the list of 17 ways men can express love for women is coming! Rather it's 1950 relationship advice or not.... Gina, Thank you for your kind words! Relationships don't change in dramatic ways across time and since ways of expressing love can vary depending on the people involved these are just a few suggestions that may help men feel love. We're glad your fiance appreciates your expressions of love and we wish you two the very best! He said all marriages will have highs and lows, but rather then measuring the other person's efforts, we should give 100%, for all we could control was our contribution. This article is about giving 100%, and works off the assumption that your partner is giving back all they can as well. Two emotionally healthy people giving their all to each other is not a 1950's value, it is timeless. I'm a little surprised at how polarizing this article seems to be. I already do many of the things listed and as I read through it I was reminded of some ways I could show my man how special he is to me. After nine years and 3. I plan on picking a few things, having them in mind all day, and surprising him when he gets home. Thank you for this article. Clmosher, That sounds like a great plan. It's so so easy to be self-focused, but something magical happens when we turn outward and try to focus on our spouse first. Our needs are very important, too, but it's amazing what a little effort on our part can do towards nurturing the relationship. And thank you for your humble approach towards nurturing your marriage! Although I'm not yet married to this guy that I'm with.. Since we just recently got engaged We actually been doing most of this and this I know that our relationship works.. It comes naturally for my spouse and I to show love, appreciation, uplifting, help one another and all the rest of the things listed in this article. If your not willing to give 100% in your marriage, then you don't need to be married. We have been 31 years and you have totally hit the nail on the head I have been doing this throughout our years of marriage and I love him more than I think he could ever dream but I am sure he feels the same way as well. Not saying there hasn't been issues with family and health but those are things beyond our control. I think we have only had 1 argument of any value which lasted maybe a day and I wrote him a letter telling him how much I love him and sorry I was, he didnt wish to talk at first till he read the letter I'm still not sure how major it was but at the time seemed like a mountain I do not nag or give orders I always ask not tell him if something needs done which I am unable to do. Without him I am not me. As we do a lot together but still do our own little things. I didn't think I could love him anymore but yet I look at him today and think God thank you for this man and father of our children as each day I love him a little more and know I always will. When you can look at your husband or think of him and you smile and your heart is so full of joy even thinking something stupid he just did you know love is always in your heart. This is GREAT TIMELESS advice, I'm 27 and my fiance is 36 and this works wonders with our relationship!! I know my fiance and I do these things daily and our love for each other grows every day just like Christine said above. If you truly truly love your spouse you'd be more than happy to do these things and get them in return. There is not a thing in the world I wouldn't do for my spouse, he's the most amazing father, best friend and soul mate. I know we have such a great relationship because we both give 100% and there's never any resentment because we're both happy to be there for one another and because we're so interested in each other we're also interested in what the other one loves to do. But I guess maybe if a person didn't get 100% back that's where their resentment could come in? Wishing everyone the best! I so agree with this post. My husband and I got married when we were very young - 21 and 17. We have been married for 31 years. The biggest mistake people make is thinking love is a feeling. Yes there is a feeling of love but it is stronger at times and less so at others. Love is a choice we make each and everyday. And these are several of the ways I choose to show love. He does so much for me also but the article isn't about what the husband should do to show love. I thought it was a great article full of time-tested advice. And you are right that some things are timeless. I find it sad that some people find this article offensive or outdated. This list is for wives... I am sure the author did not mean for list to be all inclusive or for every idea to work perfectly for every couple. A good marriage takes effort. Real love is a decision... I am sure if you look there are articles on how husband can nurture their wives. Jan, Thanks for your comment, we appreciate it! You are right, this list definitely isn't all-inclusive, but simply a list of of some ideas to try. I also felt like some of it was so full of bolonia. I believe in taking the extra step, give the first kiss or gentle pat on the butt, planning him a week in Scotland for golf with his bags packed,money and reservations made. I am the 75 % moneymaker, I cooked him his special meals, but it has to be returned with respect and emotions. It takes two to make a marriage and after 23 years, it's time to hang it up. I would like to her what your husband thinks, I was waiting for fir you to tell us to get down and kiss his feet next. I also bet that you don't bur yourself anything without getting his permission. Try working 60 hrs a week, raise your 2 teenagers, cook complete meals 4 nite a week, and one weeked you set aside for his sprts. THE problem was that I started to really enjoy 2 of his sports and he felt I was in his space. I am happy you have a great marriage but leave it to beaver isn't always the way. Barbara, Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences! You are right, not all marriages are the same and these ideas definitely don't work for everyone. It sounds like you are definitely doing all you can to make things work, and we think that is so important. We hope your husband is doing his part to help you feel loved and appreciated too, because it sounds like you are doing a lot! As long as you and your spouse both feel loved and cared about by each other, then that is what matters. We would love to hear your ideas on what has worked for you, because it would definitely help other couples out there in similar situations. I liked the ideas and I've tried most of them for a while, sadly he still didn't appreciate it. Was a constant criticized person of all I did and still said I was the problem in the relationship. I am a single mother of 2 boys in sports and take care of my elderly mother but I managed to make time for him. He still said I didn't make time for him. I prioritized him over myself and my friends and still he said I didn't do so. It gets emotionally exhausting when u try so much and it just isn't good enough for him. In the end I walked away from the relationship because he still would ridicule me and accuse me of irrational things as well as jump assumptions. When I would buy him something he liked he would tell me give it to my son's dad instead. When he would treat me and my kids out or help me in any way he would throw it in my face later. Was always bringing up my past before he was in the picture and making me feel less of a person for the mistakes I made but learned from. So although these are great ideas, it only works of the partner is willing to do the same. Tip 2 is key! I am not married yet, but i truly recognize how important it is for my boyfriend to be cared for. They like compliments and back rubs just as much as we do. Even if we dont share hobbies, we try to do complimenting activities. I read my magazine and he reads his books hehe while we are both comfy at the beach together. He makes up such good meats on the barbecue and i make dessert! He is not much of a gift guy, but my mothertongue is Spanish, and his is German, and i can see his eyes sparkle everytime i improve. It is the non material gift i have for him. Take every tip and reflect it upon your own personal experience! Love is timeless and this is not outdated!! These are just good, common sense, and reliable tips to make a man happy! To the people with bad relationships with unkind men, you picked the guy! Loving and kind gestures are repaid a thousandfold when you choose a good man. I have been married nearly 40 years, but don't keep score, and don't look for a gesture in kind. Example: with 1, I try to make some dishes that my husbands mother made when he was young, I have mastered some of them, but others are elusive. I KNOW my husband is NEVER going to make my mother's fudge recipe for me! But, if it is raining, my husband will want me to be driving the car with the best wipers, or brakes, or tires. He would eat sandwiches every night if I were tired. If he knows I had a hard day, he will suggest we stop for dinner on the way home. He keeps things in good repair, and hooked up the most amazing TV system in the kitchen, so I am entertained when I am in there. Actually, any room in the house, except for the bathrooms! The only one I never do, is sharing his hobbies. That gets mixed in with the alone time. I don't care for sports of any kind, unless the player is family , so my husband does that with male friends. He hates most live theater, so I go with friends. I LOVE this comment! I can't believe all of the negative perceptions of this article. It is exactly what you said- good, common sense things to make a partner happy! The author clearly stated that it wasn't out of what you expect in return yet that is how everyone is taking it. You give your all in the areas in which you can and he will return the favor in areas he can. While of course still leaving him with his own things to do in his alone time. If it's not meant to be, then it just isn't meant to be. But this is a great way to keep things well when it IS meant to be! The point is these are the LITTLE things. Suggestions Replace your husband with someone for which you love. It isn't done with expectations. It is selfless, and loving. When it comes to a relationship with your man, it is about a man and woman coming together. We are different and need, desire differently. Politics, and social expectations of the day be dammed. Give out of love. No pride, no score. I stumbled on this site accidentally and was a little put off by the fact that there seems to be a lot of ego stroking. I literally wiped my husbands rear end when he couldn't do it for himself, kept the house cleaned, took care of the bills, and entertained when I asked him not to invite guests for extended periods of time. What more do you want? I'm an imperfect wife who has been married almost 35 years to an imperfect husband. Highs and lows are apart of every imperfect marriage and relationship. A part of building a life and marriage that's strong and safe is the teachability we each have-I can only change and grow me! What kind of a lover am I or want to become? Here's the deal-love is costly, real love anyway. It's selfless and it sacrifices and gives and gives and gives. Unconditional love is what you and I long for. But that kind of love has no rights. I found encouragement to keep giving by your helpful ideas. With a grateful heart- Debbie I think this is pretty great. I'll admit, a few things I kinda rolled my eyes at, but the point is we all need to feel appreciated and important to the one we love. I'm by no means an uber conservative woman, but I firmly believe that little efforts go a long way in a relationship and we all deserve to be lifted up from time to time. Now to find the one I'm meant to be with! Reos, Thanks for your comment on our post! However, if each of you have that as your goal, then chances are your emotional buckets will be filled and you will have a deep and lasting love. I have read this post and honestly do not like it. How about also focusing on how husbands can to the little or big things to put a smile on their wives' faces. I am so tired of these ancient ideals which make me feel as though I have to be a doormat. Been there, done that and it didn't change a thing. I don't see how my life has to revolve around my husband who has no interest in considering me. Glynnis, Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the article. In marriages where the other spouse has zoned out, things are more difficult for sure. However, we believe love is a choice and that the only thing you can do is take a step back, think about what you can do differently or what you can change, and take responsibility for your part of the relationship. We hope your spouse starts reciprocating your kind gestures soon! I love this article! I would not have loved it a year ago. I lived selfishly in my marriage for years and didn't even realize it. I was taking care of the kids, cleaning, cooking and laundering his clothes. What more could I do for him? But when my eyes were opened I realized I was being selfish in my words and attitude. Building my husband up with encouragement, gentleness and true compassion has made my marriage 100% better, and I thought that it was as good as it could get before. Our society has slowly moved in the direction of putting a man in his place, showing women can be stronger and smarter, but it is hurting our men. I have a young son and I pray for a wife strong enough to be gentle and kind for him one day. To build him up and be the helper he needs her to be. Tina, This comment is amazing. Thanks for your great example of humbly looking inside yourself, seeing what you could do taking responsibility for your part in the relationship , and sharing how good things are now! So proud of you. And there will be plenty of good girls for that sweet son of yours. Though i haven't met DR aiwekhoe but i have being hearing and seeing his wonderful deeds on people's life.. This made me contacted him because i was also diagnosed of herpes virus, When i contacted Him, without wasting time, he started his Miraculous work in my Life, I am happy and Glad to say that i am now cured after using his herbal Medicine.. You can also reach him on draiwekhoe gmail. 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You are right, these people on here have some serious things to share. So, what do men look for in a woman. I'm not saying that this article speaks to everyone but to dismiss it out of hand is wrong too. Women do give off those jesus. He no longer wants to do anything with me talk to me or see me I feel that our marriage can be saved but it was miserable when my partner doesn't want anything to do with me. It's a simple equation. Throw him a compliment. Same in a relationship.